Have you ever heard someone say, “if you can travel with a person, you can live with them”? I suppose the adage comes from experience. My cousin and I have traveled together for twenty years. And both of us would admit that we would not want to live with each other. We are as different as night and day. That said, we have found traveling together mostly delightful – and when it is not, we have found ways to cope.
In thinking about our trips, both domestic and international, I wondered whether I should begin looking for someone who is more compatible. A review of suggestions for a good travel companion yielded qualities that both of us display, for the most part. Let me share what I have learned.
Shared Interests and Open-Mindedness. When planning a trip, someone with interests similar to yours gives you peace of mind. While there may be some compromise in activities, the experience will be richer if you are able to see the sites you want to see. You may want to be willing to try something new or a little different than you usually try, making your trip more fulfilling.
Expectations and Communication. One of the best ways to ensure you will both have a great time is to see expectations in advance. On a road trip, for example, how long will you drive each day? Do you like to get to your destination quickly or find your way organically? What criteria do you have for lodging? Are you a Motel 6 traveler or do you prefer a Hilton property? Are you a fast-food junkie or do you prefer a sit-down meal at a nicer restaurant? Have you defined a budget set for entertainment and amusement? These and other visions of the ideal trip should be discussed during planning to avoid conflict as the trip progresses. And during the trip if concerns arise, discuss them right away.
Adaptability. Even with the best laid plans, things happen. You and your companion will want to be able to adjust to unexpected changes. Be positive and select a travel partner who can roll with the punches. A good sense of humor goes a long way to lighten the mood in difficult situations.
Avoid People Who Go To Extremes. This should be common sense. On flitterfever.com I read an interesting and relevant suggestion. Ask your potential travel buddy their opinion on controversial issues such as the President, vaccinations, conspiracy theories, etc. If you cannot agree to disagree or avoid touchy subjects such as these, you might want to select someone else with whom to travel.
The whole point, obviously, is you want to relax and enjoy your adventure. Choosing a compatible travel companion is Step 1 in making happily memorable experiences. Enjoy!
Silver Sage Sisters 