Mary Ann
When I was a young girl, it was the custom to have a Hope Chest. It usually was a cedar chest often from the Lane Company to store your future linens and household items to set up housekeeping after you married. Did any of you get a miniature cedar chest from a local furniture store for your graduation? I did, and it too was from the Lane Company. I have had it my whole adult life, and it is where I save my quarters. It is a happy, little box. It makes me smile when I see it as it represents my youth.
As my generation has gotten older, I have taken the concept of a Hope Chest to create a Comfy Box. There will a time when we will be going to need assistance in caring for ourselves. The caregivers may know nothing about us, our likes and dislikes, our wants, and needs. So, as we prepped for marriage with Hope Chests, we can now prep for our old age with a Comfy Box.
At this time of life, we can still shop for ourselves, and we know what we want to wear so this is the time to buy pretty night gowns, bed jackets, robes, and slippers. I would think you need a night gown for every day of the week plus one or two extra ones for the just in cases. We are probably going to be messy in our old age; however, we want to be clean. I have mine stored in a plastic tub but there are wonderful soft-sides storage containers for clothes now. I like soft socks, and my cold feet like the warmth they provide. It helps me sleep better as well. I have slippers for the day and have found boiled wool ones that support my feet and keep them warm.
I have prepared a small notebook with information to help make me comfortable. I have included where to buy certain products and have included pictures from the internet just to clarify the item. I included my favorite kind of tea – Harney and Son’s Paris blend, a fancy Earl Gray. I put a teacup/tea pot combo in the Comfy Box so I can enjoy a pretty cup of tea! I have a particular hand and foot lotion that I like from Sabon. Candles would be nice but probably too dangerous for an old lady. An atomizer with an auto turnoff would be safer, and I can put my favorite essential oils in the water such as Shinrin-Yoku or Serenty by DoTerra Essential Oils. It would help with sleep and cover any odors. I plan on adding to the little notebook as I find items.
One thing that I want to make sure that I have either on my phone or iPad is my Calm App. I bought a lifetime subscription, but I am putting all the info about the account in my notebook. I listen to the meditations each day and fall asleep to the Sleep Stories each night. I need to figure out audio books. I love stories so I want that in my life. It does scare me a bit that most technology may beyond me regarding the TV and streaming services. I find it hard at times now to figure out what I need for the various services. Maybe I will be able to just tell the TV what to do. One can only hope!
We do not have control over aging, but we do have some control now how we might want to live later. The quality of our life can be somewhat up to us. A Comfy Box is a way to make this happen. I can see myself now sitting in bed in a pretty night gown wrapped in a soft bedjacket sipping a cup tea in my soft socks with toasty toes. How about you?